How to Have a Debt Free Christmas – The 4-Gift Christmas Challenge

One way our family has opted to keep our Christmas budget under control, especially since adopting all the boys, is to do the 4-Gift Christmas Challenge.  The Challenge is simple…for each child, we purchase something they Want, something they Need, something to Wear and something to Read.  It has been such a cost saver for us and each child gets a mix of presents we can feel good about giving. 

Kids and Thorns – The Impossible Task of Perfect Parenting

In case anyone is misled by pictures of smiling children in the most adorable Halloween costumes – but seriously, those are the cutest, right?  I have to let you all in on something – our life is not all roses.  Whoever (or is it whomever? I never get that right) thought up that phrase forgot, roses have thorns.  Today was a particularly thorny day.  And, I am not talking a little prick on the finger thorny.  I am talking those big huge vines of thorns that sprung up in Sleeping Beauty. Massive – huge – black – ugly – thorns.